So, I shall begin by telling you about getting to the border. Our plan was to get our visas right at the border because it is the cheapest route: $20 USD. We took a bus that dropped us off right close to the border, then we planned to take a tuk tuk right to the border. Now, so far we have been fooled by a few tuktuk drivers (as in they have taken us somewhere different than we had originally negotiated) and have come to expect it. However, when we said 'take us to the border' it seemed straight forward enough. First, the driver took us to a travel agency (who are known for gaining commission on all tickets and visas that can otherwise be purchased for cheaper, tuk tuk drivers work in tandem with travel agencies and get a cut of the commission), clearly this wasn't the border. But, who knows maybe this is how you get a Cambodia visa. Sure enough, the visas were significantly more expensive:$35 USD , we politely declined the transaction, they got mad at us, we left. Then our tuk tuk driver drove us next door (literally) to a Cambodia consulate where the guard told us we could get our visas for $32 dollars....... we didn't even get out of the tuk tuk we just said 'please just take us to the border', so she did. The border looked like a border from the old west, hot, dusty and busy with sinister looking folk around ever corner. It wasn't long before a fellow singled us out, and told us he knew of a great travel agency where we could get cheap visas : $30USD.... we didn't even break stride as we could see he was not pointing in the direction of the border. Now, we are finally at the visa window that has a sign saying 'Cambodian Visa $20USD', finally! Of course, there was a guard outside the window who then said it cost $26USD, we argued with him and eventually he just walked away, then the guy at the actual window said it cost $20USD plus $3USD... by this point we were tired of people trying to take our money and continued to argue with him, then he went down to $3 extra for all of us, we continued to argue, he said if we didn't pay it would take 3 to 4 hours, we said that was fine and went and say down.... we got our passports back with our visas about 4 minutes later. They did spell my name wrong (Tamama) but it was well worth it.
Crossing the border from Thailand to Cambodia reminded Darcy of the US\Mexico border, there was quite a stark difference. Cambodia seemed poorer and the people a little rougher. Lonely Planet describes Poi Pet (the border town) as the cesspool of Cambodia- it is no exageration. We were glad to get on a bus and be on our way to Siem Reap. The bus ride was hot and exhausting but thankfully brought us to a wonderful family run guesthouse. We spent the next two days exploring the wonderous Angkor Wat, which for those who don't know is a large collection of ruined temples in the jungle of Cambodia, the largest and nicest being Angkor Wat which is the largest religious building in the world. It was quite amazing and difficult to fully describe. But I will say, the stairs are comically steep... I don't know how they managed to build such amazing temples with stairs that more resemble a ladder or stone wall. Despite the awe of Angkor Wat, our favorite temple was one that they have left in it's overrun jungle state. It is truly amazing to see how strong and persist those trees are and the temples for that matter. I should also say that the people selling souveniers at Ankgor Wat are the most persistent yet. So far Darcy has bought 1 scarf and 6 flutes; Paul: 2 scarves , 1 tshirt, 2 books; Tamara: 4 scarves, 2 tshirts and 10 postcards! I should say that these kids selling souveniers will follow you around and harass you, the little boy I bought the postcards from first followed me to an entrance that I also had to exit from asking me to buy "10 for 1 dollar" and I said "no thanks" he said "maybe on the way out" I said "maybe" MISTAKE, once I got out of the temple he said " I wait for you, you buy now" I said "no thanks'" he said "ÿou said maybe later, I wait long time in the hot and now you no buy, you lie to me" I said "umm"...." He said "three for 2 dollars, you buy (with a whimper) " (in case you haven't done the math that is now 30 postcards) so I said "what am I going to do with 30 postcards?" he says "send them, give them away, I no care"(now crying), so, alas I now have 10 postcards of Siem Reap\Angkor Wat, which actually turns out to be 13 postcards because the case doubles as 3 more postcards...
Ankgor Wat at Sunrise
Tamara getting attacked by girls selling scarves....
Darcy at the Jungle Temple
Darcy also had a lovely experience with a girl who at first gave him a free bracelet then told him "Maybe come look in my store", Darcy said "maybe not", she said "Maybe no in Cambodia means maybe yes", Darcy just walked away (which is honestly the only way out).... she replied "you are not good... you are bad to me" Darcy felt bad, but not bad enough to buy! Just so everyone knows Darcy is quite a barterer, by far the best among us and the most resilient to their tricks (as you can see).
After 3 days in Siem Reap we were on our way to the capital, Phenom Penh. Phenom Penh is supposed to be the most dangerous place in Cambodia but like anywhere, after enough time seems more normal than anything (although I should say there was a fight just outside as I was writing this... how ironic). A few funny things about Cambodia is that everyone has checkered scarf that they use for everything from a head wrap, scarf around the neck, towel, clothing, to carry random stuff and even as a hammock for little kids. There are also hammocks everywhere, I am pretty sure that at any point there is a hammock within sight of every Cambodian. They even back up their vehicles to trees and hang the hammock from the vehicle to the tree and sleep. Another thing that is interesting about Cambodians is their ability to utilize the motorcycle or bicycle. Now, at the beginning of our trip when we were in Koh Tao in Thailand we thought it was funny when we saw 3 people on a motorcycle, and hysterical when we saw a group attempting to put 4 on... here in Cambodia it is not uncommon to see 4-6 people on a motorcycle among normal traffic, you think I am joking but I am not, we keep hoping to get a picture but it hasn't worked out.
There has also been a few opportunities for us to have the dead skin eaten off of our feet by fish... massage by Dr Fish... it seemed like a good idea... except for Darcy who would said he would only do it if it was full submersion.
Now, I am not sure about anyone else but I had no idea about any of Cambodia's history before coming here except there involvement\proximity to the Vietnam war. Did you know that Cambodia underwent a genoicide about 30 years ago and 2 million Cambodians died... the worst part about it is that the UN doesn't really acknowledge it as much more than an unfortunate event of the past... it is quite heart breaking. We visited a place called 'the killing fields' which is where alot of the executions occurred and mass graves were. There is a large monument full of skulls and old clothes that were dug up from the graves... it was errily sobering. We also visited a highschool that was turned into a prison during the Khmer Rouge reign that was used for interogtation and torture, again, devistating and sobering.
On the brighter side, it is quite amazing to see how far Cambodia and its people have come from their recent past which crumbled almost their whole infrastructure, economy and culture. The Cambodians seem to have very close communitites and have the brightest yet most humble smiles I think I've ever seen.
On to Vietnam. Hurray!